QUOTE (TeriB @ Jul 2 2008, 12:57 PM)

Thanks, those are very, very good recommendations. I tried to rescue another boxer, on the advice of a friend. Her name is Abby, and she's deaf, as a lot of white boxers are. She knows some signs and is VERY sweet. But she weighed a good 20 lbs. more than Lola and was really still just a pup at one and a half yrs. old. Much as I adored Abby, she was just too much dog for me, with my 2 cats (one of which is early 15 yrs old), so she's with my boyfriend now, who lost one of his dogs a couple of years ago. Abby was raised with other dogs that she kind of followed around and depended on, not only for company, but to take cues from, and my BF has a 16 yo lab who Abby took to right away. I still get to see her, and she's happier there. So, that has made me realize I'm really not ready for another dog just yet anyway.
I'll never, ever find another like Lola though. She had the sweetest soul ever. I never thought I could love a dog so much, or that one could love me so much. Words just aren't sufficient to describe how much I miss her. We just don't get to keep them with us long enough.
Here's something else my friend sent me.
A Dog's Purpose (from a 6-year-old).
As a veterinarian, I had been called to examine a ten-year-old Irish Wolfhound named Belker. The dog's owners, Ron, his wife, Lisa, and their little boy, Shane, were all very attached to Belker, and they were hoping for a miracle.
I examined Belker and found he was dying of cancer. I told the family we couldn't do anything for Belker, and offered to perform the euthanasia procedure for the old dog in their home.
As we made arrangements, Ron and Lisa told me they thought it would be good for six-year-old Shane to observe the procedure. They felt as though Shane might learn something from the experience.
The next day, I felt the familiar catch in my throat as Belker's family surrounded him. Shane seemed so calm, petting the old dog for the last time, that I wondered if he understood what was going on. Within a few minutes, Belker slipped peacefully away.
The little boy seemed to accept Belker's transition without any difficulty or confusion. We sat together for a while after Belker's death, wondering aloud about the sad fact that animal lives are shorter than human lives.
Shane, who had been listening quietly, piped up, "I know why."
Startled, we all turned to him. What came out of his mouth next stunned me. I'd never heard a more comforting explanation.
He said, "People are born so that they can learn how to live a good life --like loving everybody all the time and being nice, right?" The six-year-old continued, "Well, dogs already know how to do that, so they don't have to stay as long."
Live simply.
Love generously.
Care deeply.
Speak kindly.
Remember, if a dog was the teacher you would learn things like:
When loved ones come home, always run to greet them.
Never pass up the opportunity to go for a joyride.
Allow the experience of fresh air and the wind in your face to be pure ecstasy.
Take naps.
Stretch before rising.
Run, romp, and play daily.
Thrive on attention and let people touch you.
Avoid biting when a simple growl will do.
On warm days, stop to lie on your back on the grass.
On hot days, drink lots of water and lie under a shady tree.When you're happy, dance around and wag your entire body.
Delight in the simple joy of a long walk.
Eat with gusto and enthusiasm. Stop when you have had enough.
Be loyal. Never pretend to be something you're not.
If what you want lies buried, dig until you find it.
When someone is having a bad day, be silent, sit close by and nuzzle them gently.
Be always grateful for each new day.
ENJOY EVERY MOMENT OF EVERY DAY !