QUOTE (Myoho @ Jun 12 2008, 02:06 AM)

Attachment, Grasping and Desire...
Kama Tanha is very easy to understand. This kind of desiere is wanting sense pleasures through the body or other senses and always seeking things to excite or please your senses - that is kama tanha.
"Once there is that clarity and seeing in the right way, then there is no suffering. You can still feel hunger. You can still need food without it becoming a desire. The body is not self; it needs food otherwise it will get very weak and die. That is the nature of the body - If we get very oralistic and high-minded and believe that we are our bodies, that hunger is our own problem, and we should not even eat - that is not wisdom; it is foolishness."
If we contemplate desires and listen to them, we are actually no longer attaching to them; we are just allowing them to be the way they are. Then we come to the realisation that the origin of suffering and desire can be laid aside and let go of.
Excessive excitation of pleasure centers could be caused by a desire to avoid pain and yet in human form the dope-a-mene response is part of reward like eating a full meal equates to a food buzz. Yea, a one night stand is great for relieving a craving to mate which is only natural but a shortterm fix may reduce the need only temporarily among species known to mate for life.
However, other literature equates these problems to genetic defects or social ills as addiction leads to dependence on chemicals known to excite pleasure centers to the nth degree. Some people can walk away from alcohol or drugs after social drinking or experimentation while others cannot. The great social lubricant alcohol, affords lessoning of ego boundries I have noticed. Vodka has removed clothing of some particular girls I have known rather uninhibited through intoxication if you were to ask me. Were these wild childs suffering from pain when I knew them, well not when I was with them not by far.
Other literature points to mankind's desire to reunite with the One after birth. And that society through religion has become fixiated on life after death. Someone stated it simply, that when you reach the end of life, start over. I can buy that. Only true accurate prediction I can make for myself today is that I will die one day for sure. Will my death be painful or painless, I have no clue.
See, to me it's all well and good that good recorded history of some 2500 years now shows man's desire to experience mystical or spiritual experiences relating to communion with a Creator directly. I guess that many are called but few are chosen but do flog yourself if you must. Practicing self abuse for enlightenment is nothing new under the sun to me. If excessive excitation of pleasure centers through chemical intervention has caused you pain, I would say you are not alone. I mean why do you think they called that medicine anti-abuse anyway ?
It is in my nature to say, contemplate this or I got your contemplation right here dude or dudette. I predict I will die one day, how, when or where has not be revealed to me personally. And if I thought I could determine my own destiny, that would not explain a semi-random chance that I would get hit head on by a drunk driver one day. Would I manifest that reality for myself one day, no. That would be a random event pretty much out of my control. Did I put myself in the position to get hit by a drunk driver, well no, not if my purpose of driving on that particular day was going to the store to pick up bread. Hardly an exercise of avoiding pain to me.
See clarity is not neccesarily a neccessity of finding truths for me. Most best teachers teach through example leaving double standards behind like inferring, "Do as I say not as I do". Am I a clear today, I am not sure but I know tomorrow will be different, that's alot like life itself to me. So those 'teachers" of life walk a road less travelled and if Buddha is met along that road, they may just kill him, stealing his chicken noodle soup for their own souls while taking his cloak too. These teachers practice a deeper meaning of "do nothing" to me. And I am hardly a teacher myself if I were to lead by example. There are those in fact who reach serenity without suffering or chemical intervention.