QUOTE (TapDuncan @ Sep 5 2008, 01:03 PM)

Adam, That explains why I, as an adopted child, am a dem, and my parents are repigs. I come from a good gene pool, they do not.
I know exactly what you mean. On my adoptive mother's side, I only really get along with one cousin, and her mom was an "out of wedlock birth" to one of the patriarchs of the family -- Army man, Army chaplain, 3rd generation pastor, etc. She and her mom were absolutely SHUNNED for years until my mother, of all people, stood up to the rest of the family and told them to knock off the discrimination.
But we tease each other all the time -- I look like my mother's side and was perhaps likely adopted into that family as someone else's kid so she pokes fun at me. Then again, I get to say, hey, you're the one actually related to them by blood and I'm not so you just shut up. lol
And so it goes.
NOBODY knows the disastrous extent of "family secrets" like adoptees and our theoretical cousins, borrowed children, foster kids, and aborted fetuses.
I've been ready for a REAL national conversation on this topic for 40 years, and hope maybe this situation is just the one to start it.